“It’s so confusing… we get along so well, we’ve got so much chemistry and we like the same things, we have so much in common. It’s so frustrating that he won’t commit”…

A familiar statement that I hear so many women say, and something that I myself would have said once upon a time… 🤦🏻‍♀️

But now this situation is no longer confusing to me, as I understand the neurochemicals that cause us to be attracted to a person,

And I know that this has NOTHING to do with whether you have found your match, and more to do with hormones and chemicals like dopamine, adrenaline, and oxytocin.

Neurochemicals that have you feeling good in the moment, and leave you wanting more…. 🧲

This is what causes you to be attracted to someone and lusting over them, even though;

❌ how they’re treating you (including when they’re not with you),
❌ their actions, and
❌ their commitment (or lack of)

Don’t warrant such a high regard for them 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄

Someone who won’t commit but gives you “breadcrumbs” will activate arousal of your n...